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Unwrapping the One Gift That Shapes a Life

Finding a sense of purpose through meaning, resilience, and service

The Pursuit of Purpose

“The essence of life transcends mere happiness. It lies in being useful, honorable, and compassionate, ensuring that your existence makes a meaningful impact.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson

Imagine receiving a gift, exquisitely wrapped and entirely unique. No one has ever been presented with this exact gift before, nor will anyone receive it in the future. As you unwrap it slowly, a sense of anticipation builds, knowing that this gift holds the promise of joy, contentment, and fulfillment.

With the wrapping removed and the bow untied, you lift the lid to reveal the treasure within: your individual purpose. It is the driving force behind this moment and all future endeavors. Shaped by each experience you have had, every challenge you have faced, and each skill you have acquired, it encapsulates a lifelong quest—one that continues to unfold with intention and meaning.


FIND YOUR “WHY”

“The meaning of life is to give life meaning.” — Victor Frankl

The pursuit of meaning is an age-old journey, renewed in every generation. We continually seek understanding because an individual sense of purpose can provide structure when life feels chaotic and unpredictable. It can also contribute to both mental and physical well-being. When we have a clear intention for our lives, resilience follows.

Every life is as distinct as the intricate design of a snowflake or the uniqueness of our DNA. Uncovering personal meaning requires both introspection and forward movement. This balance often reveals what brings fulfillment and joy, while also clarifying what drains and depletes us. Approaching this process with curiosity allows us to craft our own sense of meaning from the many layers of our personal journey.


GIVE YOUR GIFT

“The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.” — Pablo Picasso

Purpose often reveals itself through acts of giving—offering time, emotional support, or financial assistance. Gary Sinise discovered his purpose by transforming from an actor portraying Lieutenant Dan into a steadfast advocate for the military, donating millions to support those in need. Jane Goodall found her calling by dedicating her life to protecting animals and the environment. Tim Tebow has used his platform to advocate for vulnerable children across the globe.

What do you have to offer? What do you feel called to give? What ignites your passion?

It is never too late to strengthen relationships, deepen a connection to a higher power, or use your unique skills to benefit others. Our experiences often clarify the values that guide us, especially during moments of hardship. That wisdom enables us to navigate setbacks with strength, finding meaning even in discomfort. Purpose grows larger than fear and doubt when it is rooted in service and intention.


OVERCOME ANY OBSTACLE

“He who has a why to live can bear with almost any how.” — Friedrich Nietzsche

From a psychological perspective, infusing even the most routine tasks with meaning can positively influence motivation and outlook. Living a purpose-driven life fosters internal motivation, making progress toward goals feel fulfilling rather than burdensome. When a strong sense of purpose is present, life feels energized and vibrant.

History repeatedly shows what humanity can accomplish when purpose outweighs challenge. Whether standing alongside others in combat or supporting loved ones through long deployments, humans demonstrate extraordinary mental resilience when their actions are grounded in meaning.

Research also suggests that mindset and outlook can influence physical health. A sense of purpose supports not only emotional and mental well-being but physical vitality as well. Imagine a person moving toward their goals with clarity and determination, supported by the strength and stamina needed to make choices that align with their mission in life.


A GUIDING LIGHT

Purpose as a Compass Through Sacrifice, Uncertainty, and Change

“What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you want to make.” — Jane Goodall

Each Special Operations Forces family makes a difference in this country. As a nation, we are continually blessed by the sacrifices and dedication of those who serve. Yet the holiday season can be especially difficult when a family member is deployed, recovering from illness or injury, or remembered with grief and loss. The traditional holiday spirit may feel distant for those carrying the weight of extraordinary responsibility and pressure.

During these seasons, establishing personal meaning becomes even more vital. Purpose can serve as a steady guide through uncertainty, helping families navigate complex emotions while honoring both service and sacrifice.


OUR PURPOSE IS YOU

Honoring the Meaning, Strength, and Legacy of SOF Families

Within each person lies the significance of their existence and the legacy they hope to create. Discovering personal meaning is not a selfish act. It strengthens connections, transforms lives, and brings clarity to moments that might otherwise feel overwhelming. When purpose guides your life, even ordinary moments carry deeper significance.

As the holiday season approaches and a new year begins, the Operation Healing Forces team wishes you growth, blessings, and empowerment. Every employee at OHF finds deep meaning in providing life-enhancing opportunities for you and your family. We look forward to continuing to bring hope and healing into 2026.

Happy Holidays from all of us at OHF.

Resources:

A Psychologist’s Guide To Finding Meaning In Life

The Science Behind Purpose: Why It’s Essential for Personal and Professional Growth

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You can recommend a grant to Operation Healing Forces through your donor-advised fund by providing your fund administrator with the following information:

Legal Name: Operation Healing Forces
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Phone: (813) 480-6078

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A Home for Healing:

Operation Healing Forces offers transformative therapeutic retreats for SOF couples and caregivers, where meaningful connections are made in homes that provide the perfect setting for creating bonds that cure. A powerful way to give back to those who have sacrificed so much is by donating your home or offering your space to support these life-changing experiences.

OUR NEED:

5-bedroom, 5-bathroom homes at destination locales throughout North America and Worldwide.

TIMING:

Retreats take place over 5 days. We have needs for retreat locations in 2026 and beyond.

LEARN MORE:

Contact Kerry Irvin at [email protected] to learn more about opening your home to our nation's Special Operators and their spouses.

Why include Operation Healing Forces in your legacy?

Special Operations Forces represent just 3% of America's military, yet they stand as our nation’s Tip of the Spear—shouldering the most demanding missions and greatest sacrifices to protect our freedoms. Honor their service and strength by securing the future well-being of SOF service members, veterans, and their families through a lasting estate gift.

"Operation Healing Forces began in 2011 to aid America’s most elite warriors, Special Operations Forces and their families. This organization has now become my legacy."

Gary L. Markel, OHF Founder and Chairman

"The sacrifices that these young men and women make in terms of death, in terms of suicide, in terms of stress on the family, is unbelievable. This is one of the most compelling initiatives that I have ever been involved in."

Tony Markel, Vice-Chairman

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Helping SOF Families Prepare for What’s Next

Operation Healing Forces offers Transition Grants to support the unique needs of Special Operations Forces (SOF) members and their families as they shift from military to civilian life. Whether it's job training, certification, relocation, or tools needed for a new career, this grant helps ease the financial burden of transition.

What the Grant Supports

Transition Grants are designed to fund:

Please note: This grant does not cover medical or mental health expenses. For wellness-related needs, visit our Immediate Needs Program.

Eligibility
Typical Grant Amounts

Awards generally range from $500 to $3,000, depending on the request and provided documentation.

Required Documentation
Examples of Strong Explanations

“This certification will help me meet job qualifications in cybersecurity and increase my competitiveness for employment after service.”

“These tools are required for me to start work as a mechanic and are not provided by the employer.”

“My spouse’s medical billing course will enable her to work remotely and provide income during my shift from military to civilian life.”

“Relocating for a confirmed job offer ensures I can begin work immediately after separation.”

Timeline

Most requests are reviewed within 7–10 business days.

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Contact:
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